Where Did I Go Wrong?  How Did I Miss The Signs? Dealing with Hostile Parenting and Parental Alienation.
 
 

    Is your relationship with your child(ren) strained?  Does it feel like they are taking sides with the other parent?  Do they claim to hate you, never want to see you again, yet cannot give you a realistic or truthful answer as to why?  Do you feel like you were on one of those amusement park rides that just went around and around, or up and down, or back and forth, but you just cannot seem to get off of it?  Or how about feeling like you are on one side of a huge mountain and you are trying to figure out how to get to the other side where your kids are? Or maybe you feel like you are drowning and every time you finally get your footing, it gets taken out from underneath you.  Or maybe you just do not understand how you could have thought you were such a good parent, and now your ex has convinced your kids that you are the worst person in the world.  You are NOT alone.  There are hundreds of thousands of parents just like you out there trying to figure out how to put their family lives back together after a nasty separation or divorce.

This book was written with parents like you, in mind.  It provides tools to help parents navigate the deep and treacherous waters of High Conflict Divorce  where Hostile Parenting is causing Parental Alienation.  This book provides ideas, information and support for the Prevention and Intervention of Parental Alienation and it’s syndrome.

    Within this book you will find excerpts from parents just like yourself.  As well as information about why and who alienate their children, about the children and how to handle them.  It includes statistics, articles, book and movie recommendations.  Written in an easy to understand format with examples and suggestions at ever turn, this book will hopefully be a tool that helps you to survive and move forward with your life.  How successfully you are able to move forward in a healthy and happy way, is a large part of what will help you to maintain or rekindle your relationship with your children.

 

Where Did I Go Wrong?  How Did I Miss the Signs?

Dealing with Hostile Parenting and Parental Alienation (Link to Free First 6 Chapter's)

By Joan T. Kloth-Zanard,

Life Coach & Certified RSS

www.KlothConsulting.com

All sales proceeds of the book,
Where Did I Go Wrong? How Did I Miss The Signs?

benefit PAS Intervention: A Prevention Intervention Program Initiative

    Since 1998, when I began running online support groups for victims of Parental Alienation Syndrome, I have amassed an amazing amount of information.  This information and the members of my support groups were instrumental in the creation of this book.  Without their support and continued participation, I would not have been able to produce this book as a tool for Prevention and Intervention of Parental Alienation Syndrome.  Below is the introduction from the book.

Someday PAS will need no introduction.  It will be well established as a form of abuse in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Diagnosis’s.  Until then…..PAS begins as Hostile Aggressive Parenting (HAP), which leads to Parental Alienation or the estrangement of the children from one parent and the effects on the children are called Parental Alienation Syndrome. 


If you have picked up this book, you are either getting divorced or are in the middle of a nasty High Conflict Divorce (HCD) or know someone who is.  You are doing something good right now, by trying to prepare yourself or at least learn how to deal with the aftermath that has hit your children and you. 


My involvement with PAS began in 1996, when it affected my family.  I began studying it and researching it and by 1999, I was heavily involved in numerous online support groups trying to figure out how to stop it from happening.  Today, I voluntarily run 3 non-profit support groups for Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS). 


From my work with these groups and the research work I have done, I began to construct this book. The information contained herein comes from years of work with victims of this horrific abuse.   My only hope is that this book can be an asset and tool used to prevent and intervene in stopping the psychological abuse of HAP and PAS. 


As you read through this book, some chapters are really short and some are very long.  But each chapter will be like a growing living organism.  Because this is a growing, new field of work, I will try to keep things updated on my website, www.KlothConsulting.com.


While reading things, certain concepts or ideas are sometimes repeated.  This is in part because of their importance or how they were originally written in the article I included in the book.   Just take it all in, mark up the book, do what you need to do to keep the key points that interest or concern you available at your figure tips.  Just remember this book is a tool to help intervene and hopefully prevent HAP and PAS from snowballing out of control.


Speaking of this book, coming up with a title was challenging, as there was so much I wanted it to say.  So I gave it as a question to my support group members and clients.  The suggestions were amazing because they said it all in just one line.  So I am including them here in the Preface because these lines give definition and meaning to the feelings, emotions and pain from PAS.  I want to give a huge thanks to all those members and clients for their help and input.


•From HAP to PAS and Back Again: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce  

•Breaking through the Mountain While Riding a Roller Coaster:  Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce

•Divorce, the Dirtiest Word in Any Language:  Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce

•What Happened? From HAP to PAS and Back Again: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce 

•Beyond Normal Parenting Relationship:  When you child does not want to have anything to do with you after the Divorce.

•Abnormal Child Parent Relationship Before, During or After Divorce: When your Spouse impedes your relationship with your children

•Where Did I Go Wrong?  How Did I Miss The Signs?  Am I Still A Good Parent? Dealing with Hostile Aggressive Parenting and Parental Alienation.

•"Spread the hatred.  My Ex tried to kill me through the kids."

•"My Ex turned the kids into scud missiles."

•Are you a Target Parent?

•Toxic Spouses/Toxic Kids: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce

•"When your ex tries to ruin your life through the kids: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce 

•"What happened?: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce

•Toxic Spouses: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce

•Support Group Suggestions:

•In One Fell Swoop: The destruction of a parent child relationship

•Normal to Hatred in 60 days

•The Nightmare of PAS

•Parental Alienation Syndrome; Dodging the Slings and Arrows

•Parental Alienation Syndrome after Divorce; Tempest after the Storm

•Parental Alienation Syndrome; American Gulag

•Breaking through the Mountain on a Roller Coaster: Dealing with Parental Alienation and the Psychological Abuse from High Conflict Divorce

•I Divorced My Spouse - Not My Kids! How Parental Alienation Syndrome Ruined Our Parent/Child Bond

•I Split from My Ex - But Not From My Kids! How Parental Alienation Syndrome Ruined Our Parent/Child Bond

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